Wednesday, July 20, 2016
Three weeks. Yup, three weeks til school starts again! Lame, I know. But I guess if you get out of school a few weeks before everyone else, you go to school a few weeks before everyone else :-(.
Anyways--I'd like to salute a few things that have made my six-kids-home-summer doable:
1. Fruit dehydrators!
The 30+ fruit trees are happily being fruitful and I still have a little bit of jam leftover from last year. I did make some more jam already and now we have plenty of jam. Fruit leather--we are out! One thing I love about the dehydrators is that you can use overripe fruit to make great fruit leather. (But it makes terrible jam 'cause it usually won't set!) All I have to do is cut my fruit, take out the seeds, purée it in the vitamix, spread it on the trays, set them in the dehydrators, turn them on and let them do their thing--it's so easy!!! And it feels good to have some healthy snacks that don't spoil.
2. Swimming pool!
We just have a no-frills aboveground pool. It is not fancy, but it keeps the kids cool and they can swim and splash (and get tired out!) while I watch from my kitchen window and make dinner---killing two birds with one stone, I love it! Still saving for my in-ground dream pool...aww--maybe next summer?! Until then--this works!!!
3. Summer schedules!
I made another playgroup schedule for my ward this year. I love having things to do and planning them out ahead makes it so worthwhile for me. I don't like waking up one day and trying to figure out what would be entertaining for my kids and I to do that day. And we all need to get out of the house from time to time.
4. The iPad!
For many summers my children have fallen prey to their mother making them do, ugh, school work over the summer. I used to comb through their old textbooks and workbooks to save things for them to do over the summer. While they still have to do some hands-on work, I am very grateful for all the versatility of my iPad and all the wonderful educational apps that I can put on there for them to use.
5. Deep freezer!
What would my favorite season of the year be without delicious frozen things to eat. Popsicles and fruit blends galore for the kids, plus occasional ice cream sandwiches and other ice cream novelties. Most importantly: mom's personal stash of fudgesicles so she can "indulge" while trying to stay fit.
6. Another driver!
Oh how nice it is to have another driver. She is finally comfortable with the stick shift and has been able to take herself to all the teenage activities she needs to go to--and with being a member of three choirs and a cross country team and getting a job and wanting to hang out with friends--I am happy that I do not have to be her chauffeur!! I know what you're thinking; in three weeks this means I will get more sleep as I will no longer have to drive to early morning seminary!!!! Hooray!!
I hope your summers are all going blissfully. What are some things you love to have around for your "survival"?
Monday, June 27, 2016
about my wedding anniversary. There are no excuses for this: I consider my decision to marry my husband, in the Washington D.C. Temple, to be the best decision I have ever made!!!
It's been a great 18 years. The last three have given us quite a whirlwind of emotions with the whole "rug-pulled-out-from-under-you" autism journey, of our now 5-year-old. Our relationship has been tested, and continues to be as we are continuously met with obstacle after obstacle. But this I will attest to--we better deal with all that is thrown our way when we work TOGETHER.
I have grown to love him more and more as I have seen him, during our trial, dig down deep for that extra ounce of strength, patience, kindness, hope, faith....
My life has been derailed and we are running on a different track than most people. We have more than stopped to smell the roses! We are in slow-motion smelling those +!@*#% roses now!!! While I am meeting friends along the way who know how I feel, I am forever grateful that my husband-- the love of my life, my sexy, funny, perpetually 23-year-old boyfriend--and I are going through this together. He knows exactly how I feel.
Happy 18th to us! People--marriage is worth it if you and your partner are both willing to invest your whole heart, might, mind, body, and soul!!!!
Monday, May 23, 2016
Maybe it is an addiction to want to have, to want to be part of a close group of friends. Moving and life's unexpected trials have isolated me. I'm to the point where I am sad we've moved so many times. We have made great friends here and there, but I haven't stayed anywhere long enough to become part of a group and stay part of it. Even more isolating is the fact that I now walk a different track than most of my friends--the one of having a special needs child. Maybe I should get off social media. Because when I see people reunite and get together I am saddened because I wasn't even extended an invitation. I understand I can't be a part of every little thing. And maybe people assume my life is too tied up in making sure my five-year-old doesn't wander away, permanently. Maybe it is. Please don't reply to this post. I think people admire me because I can do a lot. But sometimes I just want to be a regular person and know what it's like to be included....
Wednesday, March 30, 2016
I had hoped to blog at least once a month, this year, but man! Life is so busy!!!
So instead, here is my sad little quick synopsis, 1 highlight per child for a grand total of 6! Whew--you're welcome!
Sang in school's "Cabaret: Passport to Europe" fundraiser. Her choir represented Ireland and sang as woodsy, Celtic women.
Had an exciting weekend of performances--attending The Piano Guys concert and then acting in the ward roadshow where she was Anna from "Frozen" AND got to meet James Perry from BYUTV's Studio C.
Turns three and reminds Mom that she is growing up by always doing things "by me self!"
*sigh* and signing off from this tired Mom in CA....
Saturday, February 20, 2016
Before and after, don't you just love those?!
I have been wanting to paint our home's exterior since we moved in. And I finally got the green light--'cause it was my Christmas present! Thanks, Babe!
I recommend the Color Smart mobile app by Behr.
In the end I went with: Behr's Smokestack (N220-3) with Cotton Sheets (RD-W15) on the garage and trim and Club Navy (QE-56) on the top trim. And I love it!!!!!
#1 had a 16th birthday to remember!
|Homecoming dance was on her birthday. What a fun surprise to get asked a couple weeks prior!|
|Her friend did her hair--lovely!|
|What a nice guy!|
Her party was a few weeks later. She wanted to invite friends to hang out at a park and play fun games. DONE!
|decorating drawstring backpacks|
|How many girls can we fit on the slide?|
|Here they come!|
|Still not done!|
|Are these girls cute, or what?!|
|My baby girl is bigger than me!|
|Wish I had this on video because it was hilarious!|
|shower caps + whipped cream + cheese puffs = messy fun!|
|Mom forgot birthday candles. 16 matches were lit and then #1 raced around to blow them all out.|
|Glow friends watch as she ends with birthday presents...|